I'm not sure having another kid at 42 is the best idea but @BjoernHolzhauer and Small Child are very excited about it.
Small Child: I will teach the baby French!
(She does not speak French).
Also, there's a strong social convention that you don't tell people you're having a baby before 12 weeks, because you may well end up actually having a miscarriage or abortion.
This quickly becomes a farce if you stick to it and end up having to be weirdly noncommittal about summer plans.
(I had to tell my dentist "er, the drugs for tooth grinding you're about to prescribe me... I think I'm pregnant..."
"You THINK?"
"Well I was going to buy a test after this appointment...")
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Also everyone's like "oh, do you feel nauseous in the mornings" and I'm like "not really! I am homicidal in the afternoons though!"
(I have been mostly avoiding social contact for this reason. Actually after the first trimester the hormones do apparently stabilise a bit and I feel much less likely to kill everyone else and then myself.)
Anyway I think mammalian evolution was a mistake and we should have stuck with laying eggs.
@solar_chase congratulations! My mum was 40 having me, very late in those days and rather frowned upon, but its quite normal now
@solar_chase OK this is very funny. And, uh, heartfelt congratulations to the lot of you!
@solar_chase next step in evolution: unzip and put baby in the fishtank for overnight. Also congrats :-)
@solar_chase Congratulations! And all the best for you and your (not always so) loved ones the next couple of months.
@solar_chase A+ thread, would read again.
I hope the pregnancy proceeds smoothly!